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Whether it's a love marriage or arranged one, for most Indian couples, keeping the flame of love on fire is a challenge. The first year of the marriage is very crucial for any couple as it decides the course of the life ahead. Many couples experience the demise of love even when they are cutting the cake of their first wedding anniversary. Sometimes, they do not know what went wrong behind this. So young couples, here are some tips for you on how to live the first year of your marriage.
Do not be a doubter
Never allow any bias to take over your mind as this might lead you to doubt your spouse. Do not give your ears to anyone who tells you about what to look ahead to about wedding. Also do not cultivate any view about your husband or wife on the basis of others' statement. Use your brain and listen to your heart.
Stress is bound to creep into your life as your wife either gets into the household chores or if she is working, she is doubly loaded with familial and official jobs. While your husband has to toil hard on his 9 to 5 job or he is under the stress of business worries. But this should not let distance built up between you two. You will have to find some time for pleasure. Do not miss any chance to escape to the pleasure land; this will be your life long memories to cherish when your hair turn grey.
Love never comes to an end, so never get tired of love. The more, the merrier.
After marriage, you become a couple and you are one, but still a little bit of privacy is advisable for both. I have heard of many couples who have different washrooms for themselves. Sometimes, it's better to spend a few moments with yourself.
Unlock your mind to suggestions, new experiences and also for compromises. Reject the I-am-always-the-right attitude. Ego is harder than the kick of Figo, but you have to kick it out from your matrimonial life.
Do not share your marital problems to anyone except your parents or siblings or your true friends.
Try to accept mistakes of your spouse. To err is spouse, to forgive is spouse. Make a clean breast in front of your partner if you have done any wrong.
Never create a pressure on your spouse by threatening him / her with divorce. This should be your last option.
An outing a week, keeps married life sleek. Plan a day out in the weekend. You do not have to dine out on every pleasure trip. You can always arrange candlelit dinner at your home. Just switch off your mobile, TV sets and door-bell also.
Keep giving romantic surprises to your spouse. Wife can fill her husband's lunch box with something he likes the most and husband can bring home something very special (bouquet, sari etc.) for his wife.
No gap of communication
Just talk over any issue related to both of you. Never leave it on fate. If you have any fears about each other, express them openly. Do not discuss any issue in the bedroom. Go to a garden or on a long-drive; discuss your problems with a peaceful frame of mind.
Finally, ask any expert if any problem persists. But remember, that it's your first year of marriage and therefore, there should not be any problem that continues the next few. Enjoy the life to the full; be true to yourself and your spouse. This is the only mantra for successful marriage.
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Source by Jayesh Purohit
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