Does Your Ex Boyfriend Still Love You? Signs That He's Still Interested

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This is a very popular question that I answer a lot to girls that have just come out of a relationship. You see, when a relationship is over, confusion sets in, and I'm talking about MASS confusion. You have no idea why the relationships' over, but more importantly, you don't know what you're ex boyfriend is thinking, how they feel about you and how they feel about the relationship.

So, does your ex boyfriend still love you? Do they secretly want to get back with you or are they totally over you and want to get on with their life without you? In this article, I am going to reveal the 3 telltale signs that you ex boyfriend wants you back, even if you guys are currently not seeing each other.

#1: Your Ex is still in contact with you

Is your ex still talking to you? Are they still messaging you on facebook? Perhaps they may be talking about you a lot to your friends or their friends that you might not be totally aware of. One of my friend's split up with his girlfriend, however they still spoke to each other every day. It was like they were still together!

Sometimes, your ex may just totally ignore you, and basically doesn't want to know you. As long as there is some sort of emotion coming from them, they are probably still in love with you.

#2: They are Over-stating their single lifestyle

If you suddenly log on to social networking sites, and you see your ex boyfriend posting lots of updates about how happy he is now he's single and how he's going to go out all the time to find new girls, this is probably a standard rebound action.

The reason why he is doing this, is because he is trying to convince himself that his life is better without you, and that's why he's trying to make himself look like his life is better, when really he is crying out for you.

#3: They blow hot and cold

Perhaps you are still in contact with you ex. Maybe one day they are totally in love with you and they are promising to sort things out, however the next day they are angry and don't want to know you. If they are acting like this, their emotions are probably all over the place and they are still deciding whether or not they are in love with you.

The bottom line is, any emotion is better than no emotion.

This is because by displaying any sort of emotion it shows that they do still care about you. Now guys are, in truth, quite simple beings. We guys can get easily persuaded by you girls, as psychologically, you're just more subtle and intelligent!

So what you need to do is start using this to your advantage. I'm not talking about going on the rebound and bombarding your ex boyfriend with pleas and desperate actions. The actions you're going to take are going to be way subtler, and they're going to work like a charm!

The first thing you are going to do, is tell him that you have accepted the break up, and you're going to do this by either messaging him or by writing a letter to him. It works better if you write by hand, because it is far more personal, and will hit them harder.

So how do you do this, without giving off the wrong impression? Well, you want to tell him that you understand that things weren't working out, and that you two need time apart. You want to say that you have exiting things planned and that he can call you in a few days when you have some free time.

You need to be deliberately vague here, as this adds to the mystery of the letter. This is the first step to winning your ex boyfriend back, but what do you to after sending this letter?

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Source by Alex Troy